Marriage in America and all across the world promises a never-ending love story in which an inheritance can be passed down, bringing together people who otherwise wouldn’t be family. Sure, this is all good and dandy, but the concept is as fake as it gets. I’d estimate that 95% of marriages are fake when it comes to genuine love between the couples.

The divorce rate is already at 50%, give or take. This is a gaslit number just like all the other numbers they feed the population. The real divorce rate is likely closer to 90% if you include the marriages that exist as a facade where one partner is fully consumed by the other. I have seen these fake marriages that do not reflect the spirit of marriage time and time again. They are just a facade of two people who stayed together while miserable, showing off their nonsense relationship to the world.

The children they produce will be unhealthy and will be placed in the same cycle they were in. Once again, these are not real marriages in the spirit of being married. This is just one person being consumed by another, called a marriage. This is why you see posts on Facebook where people post a husband who broke his back all his life for his family, only to be bailed on in the end. That is a sham life of misery masquerading as a married life.

MARRIAGE ITSELF

The marriage tends to merge two people into one. Rather than filing single, you file jointly. This is consistent with fusion and enmeshment. The way you file your taxes, the crumb of love benefit of marriage, attempts to merge two into one. This does not respect the autonomy and individuality of the partners in the marriage, as expected, since it is fake.

I’m not trying to fix marriage here, but here’s a possibility. Maybe have a marriage benefit tax exemption for two single filers that converts after 30 years or at retirement, whichever is longer. I’d actually like your thoughts on how marriage would look if the individuality of both partners were respected, while still offering the benefits of inheritance, children, etc. This article is not about fixing marriage, so I will move on.

DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS

If you look at how marriages work, benefits are granted to both parties as soon as the marriage occurs. A manipulative man or woman can marry someone and want half a week into their marriage. This happens all the time in America. In what company does a new person get full benefits potentially worth millions of dollars immediately after joining? The cost to the relationship’s breadwinner is immense, while the other party can be lazy and make up stories through smear campaigns. This makes marriage a legal scam you can play. Find the right guy or gal and use the legal system to ruin their life, and hopefully run off with a bunch of money to continue your superficially lavish lifestyle.

MARRIAGE TRAP

It’s no wonder the mentally ill try to entrap their victims with marriage. First, it places another ego role that the victim must try to live up to at all costs. See the article on ego roles and how they play into your life. The victim must avoid divorce and live in misery, since they have to live up to a fantasy that they are happily married to an abuser.

Upon failing and setting boundaries, the abuser has been setting up the smear campaign from the start of the relationship. So, the unhealthy victim will be blindsided as soon as the court proceedings start, as their name begins to be smeared, and the narrative has already been set in stone. Since the courts have a bunch of narcissists as judges, they go right along with the mental plan. If the unhealthy victim begins to get healthy, this is a moot point since most judges are mentally ill and will side with the mentally ill person (I know this from experience).

Marriage and its respective ceremonies in America was created for the mentally disordered. There is no need to tell the world you love a woman or man for an ego boost, which the mentally ill require to survive.

What is the benefit of marriage for the healthy? That I can leave an inheritance to another fairly healthy person who can already function in society on their own. WOW, what a huge benefit considering money is of little meaning to healthy people.

But for the unhealthy, oh boy, now you have a circus and drama that can be broadcast worldwide. This drama can be seen among celebrities and ordinary people. TV entertainment shows focus solely on this drama, normalizing toxic behavior, rather than speaking out against it.

FIXING THE MARRIAGE SYSTEM

Since I took a stab at it, I invite you to share your opinions in the comments. But let’s say that those who created the government system of marriage actually weren’t abusers and wanted to make the couple have a long life of real love. How would that look? What would that change? For starters, half these narcissists who get married and bounce shortly after would not have that as a play. They would have to play the long game of manipulation during the marriage, and most of them would be too impatient for that. Things could be fixed, but that will never happen. The drama generates money, which is required for the greedy and mentally disordered people who control everything at the moment.

CONCLUSION

The minimal benefits of marriage in America’s system make it a poor choice for someone who was raised healthy or has recovered from abuse. The system appears to be there to handle conflicts between two people that will inevitably arise, generate millions in the legal industry, and create additional ego roles that put pressure on people. Overall, I see it as fake, given that its purpose between two people is rarely carried out smoothly. Truly understanding how a relationship forms makes this concept a joke for its mission. Heck, completely removing marriage and giving all parents automatic split rights to their children would be better than the nonsense that exists today!